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“Never trouble another for what you can do for yourself.”
– Thomas Jefferson
Do you remember the last time you were waiting on someone to do something for you? And, do you remember how that turned out? Yes, I know disappointing right? And do you remember what happened the next time? Yes, they did it again. I know you were giving them another chance and trying to be a little compassionate with them. Well, what I want to address with you is how long are you going to allow this cycle to continue?
Isn’t it about time for you to take some serious thought and action toward this? When people you depend on don’t have the time and can’t deliver for you it is time to “Do It Yourself”. This is a key factor in personal development and growth.
If not, you jeopardize your life and business remaining stagnant or unproductive because you’re waiting on them. You never know why is it that you go through these things at times.
Sometimes people do it to keep you down and dependent on them. Yes, that what I said. And definitely what they don’t want you to know. So what happens is, they realized or thought that you can’t go no further without them. This is why they try to hold your life and business hostage and at their mercy.
Welllll! It’s time for you to break free from that bondage. It’s like having to go to others to get some fish, when you have the option to catch fish for yourself. Let me tell you, it is so much better when you have your own fish. When you depend on others, you can have limitations but when you can do it yourself then you make the decision in how much you want.
I am hoping you have begin to see the picture more clearly now. It’s much better when you have your own car, your own house, your own business or other income stream. When you can cook your own food, have your own bicycle : ), if that’s all you want. Life is different when you position yourself in this way.
Your Time Is Now
Imagine this, as a kid having to borrow your neighbor’s bicycle. On top of that, days you had to pay them to get a ride. And because you were so ignorant, you just paid them because all you wanted was a ride.
My friend, it is time you stop paying them and get your own. YES, you have the ability within you, yes you can do this, and yes you can get it done. So if they could why can’t you? Stop depending on them and get your own. Life is more enjoyable on the other side.
Now, let’s bring life back into today. I must warn you, that there will be some negative reactions toward you when you take this kind of step. Well obviously you caught them by surprise. Simply by taking this initiative and the fact that you just might not need them like that anymore.
For many, that could be devastating because they have no one else to take advantage of. Well the choice is yours, either you stay dependent on them or make up your mind to be free and experience life and business in better ways.
Yes, I know when you think about this deeply you may have thoughts of fear and doubt try to block your decision for the better.
If people today are taking their own photos – selfie, then why can’t you do something for yourself? Let me tell you that many successful people started from little beginnings. And you mean to tell me that you are not qualified? What you are reading now should give you a new hope today.
So whatever you choose from this day forward is up to you, but I suggest you “Do It Yourself” (D.I.Y.) Your time is now. Let me put it like this, your family, God and even me, is counting on You. Go ahead, I dare you to make this next season of your life and business different. And remember me when you come into your kingdom ; ).
See you again soon.
Take care until………and God Bless ya
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